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I want to compile a bucket list of things I should, could, might, or should have experienced before i die. An exploration of other peoples favourites and other peoples challenges. Sensual sexual naturist maybe even textile. I'd then love to anonymise the list , randomise it, and maybe share it in discussion, games or theatre making. If anyone would like to share here - lovely. Or PM me. Thanks so much. I want to live life to the full over the next few years. Tiny things, big things, anything. Cheers Chris… 阅读更多内容

I've just booked for a naturist week in an apartment here. Be very happy to share the holiday with someone if they want to get away to some quiet time https://nudebeaches.es/valencian-community/castellon/peniscola/… 阅读更多内容

What a pleasure to be at Bi-tastic yesterday, the annual gathering of bi folk in Scotland. There were some fascinating conversations around being bi enough, bisexuality and disability, asexuality and the spectrum of grey ace which I'd never heard of, Polyam and bi. I also decided to hold a session on the intersection of my three areas of "study" bisexuality, naturism and theatre. Exploring my theme of "How do we choose to reveal our bodies through life performance and art?". We talked about liminal space between people clothed and naked, body morphing through age or transitioning, the scanning… 阅读更多内容

I'm in Edinburgh today (3-5ish) and London on Thur (12-4) and going to have some lovely relaxing time in Pound and Locker Room. Be fun to meet some other Xhamsters there and share experiences. Its been a long work month and I have these few days to relax before some naked time (and work) in France. Hope to see some fun things in the sauna and steam. Then back to Scotland mid-sept to enjoy some autumn countryside exploring - maybe naked with xhamster friends who knows.… 阅读更多内容

Does anyone fancy sharing an apartment in Gran Canaria or somewhere else warm/hot for a naturist week. I see the cost is the same for most rooms for one or two/three people - so be fun to share naturist adventure with one/two bi friendly xhamsters and share the costs. I'm taking a week away whilst the rest of the family are away for a month. Love the dunes, the quiet life, the chance of a massage and lounging around with books. Happy to hear from anyone, any gender, any sexuality, any shared interests, who'd like an adventure together. (Prefer not to be with someone who is there in secret from… 阅读更多内容

So I have the joy of being in Ayr for a couple of nights next week (21/22 Mar) and wondering what and who I will be able to find around there to have a bit of xhamster fun with. I had better do some date explore. I don't think there's a sauna in town, but maybe there's a fun bar for when I have finished work. Thur 21st - lovely room, lying down and exploring xhamster. I've sent a few messages around. Back here around 8.30 after work and don't have to leave till 11am. I suspect I will have a drink in the bar alone and then climb to my double bed and shower and bath alone. But who knows.… 阅读更多内容

I'm off for a week of work in China - my first visit. I'd welcome any recommendations of good places to go, or indeed any xhamster who happens to be in either city 17-24 Nov.… 阅读更多内容

This last few days have been BiVisibilityDays in various areas of the UK and the world, and I'm sharing this logo and wanting to explore a bit in this blog. As a bisexual man I am in a small minority, but not as small as people think.I was at a BiTastic 2018 event over the weekend, my first of really being out and with other people. A talk given by another guy there led me to thinking. He said that a recent survey showed that 4% of the population stated that they were bisexual. However 14% of men polled who were sexually active… 阅读更多内容

For the first time in nearly a year my xhamster mate H was around and ready to meet up for our first time in the local sauna. We'd both been there many times, and reported many fun times to each other (and indeed in blogs). This was a chance for us to get steamy and see what was happening. I arrived first for our rendezvous in the steam, and I'm afraid I got rather involved with a lovely cock that was asking for some attention. It was a quiet afternoon, nominally a mixed session which can sometimes mean there are some hetro-hunters there. However today it was clear all the men were happy to w… 阅读更多内容

I was at a theatre event last night celebrating the unheard voice of the bisexual man (or woman or inter queer), It was wonderful but I realise how silent we are. Tomorrow I am playing hookey from work and Locker Room near Oval opens at 11am, why not come and join me. I need to leave 3ish to catch up with my daughter who will want to know what I've been up to. If not then, do comment/ connect and maybe we can find another time. Locker Room is boys only. I'll be at Rios on Tue with another partner which is M/F welcoming - however they identify you at the door. Cpme say hello whatever bi world… 阅读更多内容

Next week my wonderful naked wife and I head for a week in Crete at the Vritomartis Naturist resort - who has been there, what stories and delights would you like to share. Cheers… 阅读更多内容

Sitting at a desk being a good person, and missing time to get in a sauna or close to other naked bodies. I love our visits to do naked dance. I love my ocassional sneaking off to the Helsinki sauna which is rich in needy cocks and massagable bodies. And as summer comes, hopefully, more time to go to naked beaches and play. I am lucky in that I love all bodies - all genders, as long as the heart and sparkle shines from their eyes. Too much work at the moment to get away enough, and primary partner away too much working her socks off all over the UK. When we are together it is wonderful.… 阅读更多内容

As I sign off here in chilly grey UK, I wish everyone a great festive season. I am off to Gran Canaria where I hope I can be naked most of the time, reading, sunning, relaxing, and maybe meeting new friends. If anyone is there from 22nd to 29th then do let me know and we can share a dune. I have a lovely (I hope) little Air B nB apartment just off the dunes with access to a pool and sun loungers - shared. It will be a pleasure to get a week of quiet, before returning for a busy week of work travelling around Hereford, Bristol, Exeter (catching up with another xhamster), Winchester, Poole and… 阅读更多内容

I enjoy Rios in Kentish Town, Pleasuredome in Waterloo, Bristol Gardens in Brighton, and Helsinki in Ipswich - all lovely places to relax and meet some interesting bodies to play with. But I was pleasantly surprised to make my first visit to a very local men only sauna in Kennington. A quick hop from my base in London, and perfect to wander into at 9-10pm after meetings or theatre. I have yet to explore it in the daytime. Last night I arrived about 10pm and it was winding down, but there was still a lovely guy there who just wanted to be a sub for an evening, because he is usually dom. Wh… 阅读更多内容

As I stay with Xhamster I find myself using it more for lovely (at times very sexy) conversations between friends across the UK and beyond. As they undertake an exploration, or I do, we share experiences. I find myself less drawn to the "porn" and more to the stories and the people. I am sure there are many fakes, but if people have genuine content and an introduction which seems real, then I am fine. This last few weeks I have begun two new parts of my life - polyamory and dating a transman/ftm. Both new to me and glorious to explore. My wife is happy with my journey and they have met, whi… 阅读更多内容

So whilst the rest of the family are heading for a massive holiday across the world, my work keeps me from being away for long. I've booked a flight to spend a week hopefully naked in Maspalomas dunes. Anyone else around Gran Canaria 22-29 Dec, do get in touch - be fun to hook up...otherwise how else can I get suntan lotion on my back.… 阅读更多内容

I am exploring the world of porn/art and I am wondering:- When I look on line I am a voyeur. I have no idea whether the world i am viewing is consenting to what happens. I can guess that a solo man uploading a video is doing so knowingly. But I can't be sure. It is a cultural belief that the man is in control, whilst a woman on a solo screen may be there against their wishes. Neither do we know. When there is a camera recording some action I can never be sure that those on screen are wanting to be there. The script may offer one point of view, but I cannot know whether there is coercion there.… 阅读更多内容

I'm staying around Ueno and decided to have a quick visit to the "24" a 5 floor spa. I went for an hour this afternoon between meetings [very bad I know] and it seems quite fun. All male. 100% locals. There are a couple of baths to lounge in, a sauna which is quite hot, a series of shower cubicles with glory holes [ not full enough to be interesting] and then a couple of floors of bed spaces for communal relaxation. A little action being enjoyed in one area with one man being given a lovely massage and blow by 3 others. There are private cabins on a couple of floors and then a roof garden… 阅读更多内容

I am a relatively screwed up guy. Shy, reserved, able to turn it on when needed. BUT In a naturist environment that all slips away. Why is that. Maybe because [I hope others empathise] when I was 8 - 12 I felt inadequate. I shared communal showers with other boys and hid myself. I was small [I am a grower not a show-er - and even then it is not majestic]. That set the tone for the next 20 years of my life. And then I went to Byron Bay with a new partner and there was an expectation of nakedness. It turned me. The moment I was [and am] naked I feel that I am comfortable. Anyone feel like that… 阅读更多内容

So its 9pm in Tokyo Ueno district and I'm in a solo room with a large bed and too much time on my hands. Any M or MF xhamsters in town fancy a beer or a meet. And I would love to go to a fun sauna/bathhouse to relax with someone who knows their way around. Do get in touch. Cheers… 阅读更多内容