Male masturbation toys

I'm totaly new in this and there is a lot but what is good ?

I would like to get me something that feels close to a real pussy or mouth.

If it's automatic it would be more realistic, so i don't need to use my hand to move the toy.
But what i find does not seems really good value for the money, a lot of noise ...

So who can give me advice, has experience and what would u say i really need to check out and is feeling very good !

Fleshlight is one option, but i still need to move it with my own hand and the option to make it automatic is not very cheap ...

thanks