Why Spanking, hair pulling
Pleasure is nice, and it’s the name of the game for the most part, but pain brings a whole new level to the experience of sex. The reason is very simple:
Guys you can touch your partner’s leg or you can run your fingers through her hair and she’ll enjoy those acts… but she could easily be thinking about her job, or her taxes, or some text that she wants to respond to.
It’s nothing against your effort, but the human mind will travel; it’s natural.
But compare that to a slap on her butt or pulling her hair. It would be almost impossible for her to focus on anything else than that immediate sensation she just experienced at your hand.
Pulling hair or giving a light slap are great assets to use during sex, both are quick sensations that bring back her attention to you and the pleasurable things you are doing to her.
Having a man’s hands slap your butt or pull your hair plays into the fantasy of being taken, also known as ravishment. Result is release of endorphins, which combine with the neuro-chemical cocktail of sex create a feeling of heightened exhilaration.
Guys you can touch your partner’s leg or you can run your fingers through her hair and she’ll enjoy those acts… but she could easily be thinking about her job, or her taxes, or some text that she wants to respond to.
It’s nothing against your effort, but the human mind will travel; it’s natural.
But compare that to a slap on her butt or pulling her hair. It would be almost impossible for her to focus on anything else than that immediate sensation she just experienced at your hand.
Pulling hair or giving a light slap are great assets to use during sex, both are quick sensations that bring back her attention to you and the pleasurable things you are doing to her.
Having a man’s hands slap your butt or pull your hair plays into the fantasy of being taken, also known as ravishment. Result is release of endorphins, which combine with the neuro-chemical cocktail of sex create a feeling of heightened exhilaration.
6 年 前
