So, You Found A Sugar Daddy....
So, You found a Sugar Daddy…? Well, Congratulations. Being a Sugar Baby is a lifestyle that so many covet and so few get to live. Now that you are a Sugar Baby, you owe it to yourself to make the best of this opportunity and be a good one. Being a Sugar Baby your major role would be as Sugar Daddy’s arm candy, and to provide him romance, companionship, fun and intimate moments. As someone who has lived this lifestyle for more than four years, with many different Sugar Daddies, I believe that I can help make your experience a better one. Of course each Sugar Baby is different, as is each Sugar Daddy, and you may want to tweak and tailor what you find below to your particular requirements.
1. It’s His World. You need to be always aware that you are in it for his pleasure. You are there to fulfil His fantasies. If he is pleased, you are successful. Whatever it is that you do, the experience needs to be fun, enjoyable and relaxing, more particularly for him. Be completely Uninhibited, experimental, passionate and fun loving. Sweet, naughty and loving life to the fullest. You are in it so that he has his fun. Let his wish be your command. Make the experience delightful and memorable for him. Put a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye.
2. Be Discrete. If there is one thing that is more important than all others, and that should be remembered at all times, it is discretion. Most Sugar Daddies have a reputation that needs to be kept professionally. Sugar Daddies could be respected figures in high places and revealing a sugar relationship is not what they may want. A lot of these men want Sugar arrangements to be discrete, unless they let you know otherwise. Don’t even think of posting pics or conversations with them on the Social Media.
3. Put Your Emotions Aside. Sugar Daddies are looking for a drama free, emotion free, fun relationship. So don’t bring in your emotions into the equation.
4. Know what you want. Go over what your needs and wants are. Give it some thought and decide on what it is that you are looking for, how much time you want to devote to being a sugar baby, what activities are ok with you, what activities are a deal breaker, and what will be the minimum below which you would rather not be a sugar baby. Don’t make it all about money though: The sugar daddy has the money, and the sugar baby has the sugar. Both have what the other person wants. Money may be part of the equation, but it’s not a bargaining chip. The relationship is about willfully fulfilling each other’s needs with something you can easily give. Since your relationship is based on a give and take exchange, you have to be decided on what you want to receive.
5. Know what daddy wants. Some want constant companionship, some want to have a trophy girlfriend, and yet others just want to have someone to be on the receiving end of all their affection and gifts. The best and most successful sugar babies know what their sugar daddy wants and they become just that. It’s all about fulfilling a need and getting your reward in return.
6. Agree on an arrangement. For every relationship to run smoothly, you have to set it up on a foundation of mutual agreement. As such, an arrangement must be clear-cut for the both of you so that you can set expectations and avoid misunderstandings and disappointments in the future. Some things may be understood even if not verbalised. For example, that you should be available and respond whenever he texts, calls, emails or decides to drop by your house unexpectedly. Sugar Daddy is giving you a lot of his money, so you should give him your time. After all, that is the arrangement.
7. Develop a sense of humor. Sugar daddies love being entertained. If you think about it, most of their days are spent in very serious atmospheres. They’re professionals so they barely get a lot of time to interact with people on a social level. Being able to entertain them with an appropriate sense of humor will not only keep them grounded, but also it will impress him that you’re able to lighten up his day on or off cue.
8. Invest on your looks. As a sugar baby, you have to take care of yourself. So brush up on your makeup skills, go hit the gym on a regular basis. Your partner would want you to look and feel your best so you can give your very best to them as well. In the end, its the whole package that counts. The Hair, The Nail Colours, Makeup, Clothing and accessories, Shoes, Posture, Attitude, Tattoos, Piercings, Body modifications and Ornamentation...the whole spectrum. Try various combinations, and keep making changes, based on your mood from time to time, so that you always appear fresh to yourself and to your Sugar Daddy. Be a playground for fantasy, desire, love and passion. Play the enchantress and seductress. Be Flirty and Fun. Be Sensual and Sexy. Wear premium clothes and Premium shoes and Scents. Spend on your makeup and grooming.
9. Be Elegant. Nothing beats a beautiful woman who has an ounce of dignity and class. Trotting around the city with your Sugar Daddy on his arm should not be a reason to shy away from the beauty of poise. Stand tall and keep on top of your mannerisms. Dining etiquette, articulating well-formed sentences, physical approach, all of these elements are significant in securing your place as his long-term Sugar Baby.
10. It's more than sex. Its companionship, its romance, its being arm candy, its having a great time together, its having fun. It’s of course also sex. Hardly ever would you find a Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby relationship where sex is not involved. In fact sex could be the fulcrum of the relationship…but its not just sex.
11. Treat it as a way of Life. Treat the sugar baby role as a way of life rather than a job. Let Pleasure be your passion. Always dress to impress, and enjoy the attention and admiring glances.
12. Develop your IQ. Subscribe to some newspapers and Magazines, Watch News on TV. While no one hires you for your intellect, having one helps. Having a good knowledge of happenings in the world, books, fashion trends etc is always helpful. Remember, its companionship, its reassurance. And Intelligence is sexy too...!
13. Work on Yourself. Always maintain notes. What you wore the last time...what excited him more....what made him happy.
14. Be Confident and Be Fun. That Sugar daddy is ready to part with his money to have you should build your confidence and self esteem. When a man is paying you, it obviously shows how desirable you are. Exude Confidence. And once you have thought out your course, and got into it, remember, there is no point in resisting anymore. So Accept your new life, and the moment you accept it, it becomes enjoyable. Know and accept your new place, your new role, that of being Fun. Let your life revolve around Pleasure, Fun, and Sugar Daddy. Awesome things will happen once you start seeing the fun side of your role. Believe in the credo that Do whatever you want in life as long as you don't hurt yourself or anyone else in the process. Believe that you need to give yourself over to the one you are with completely.
15. Smile. Its the sexiest curve on your body. Have an open, relaxed body language. Loosen up. Keep things positive. Let him feel that you are enjoying it as much as he is. Even if you are not getting as much pleasure as you hoped to, or something is causing a distraction in the pleasure, fake it. You can’t be beautiful if you are grumpy.
16. Think Sexy. Try to create a sexual perspective for most things. Think sexy. Be sexy. As you try to give everything sexual overtones, your mind starts getting transformed. You learn that you are born to make Sugar Daddy’s life happy and pleasurable.
17. It’s a Relationship and Not Escorting. By no stretch of imagination does being a Sugar Baby even come remotely close to being an escort, as some would have you believe. A prostitute and a client have a transactional relationship. They meet, exchange funds, and participate in some sort of physical act and part ways. Typically, this is a one time occurrence. A job. There is no relationship, and no possibility for a relationship. And that is the key difference really: Relationship. Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies have on-going relationships, not transactions. More often than not, a Sugar relationship will resemble that of a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. There are real connections and real possibilities at romance, something that is not in the realm of possibility with an escort or prostitute. Just because a relationship doesn’t follow the traditional rules of courtship, doesn’t mean it isn’t valid. It also doesn’t mean it’s i*****l. A sugar baby is a woman who wants to date financially secure men who can provide her with the lifestyle she desires. She’s selective about who she dates; a prostitute isn’t picky about who she takes on as a client.
18. Shut off the Critics. Look at yourself as a Business woman who is providing a service. Like any other Woman who is an entrepreneur. As a Sugar Baby, you are just providing a service, like a doctor or a lawyer or an auto mechanic does. If Sugar Daddy wants to do it and Sugar Baby wants to do it too, how can it be wrong? Have you heard of a crime, where no one is complaining? Sugar Baby could be Sugar Daddy’s companion, arm candy, or even serious wife material. Some people really are just looking for someone to shower all their love, affection, and money on, and you just happen to love receiving all those. As with anything you do, don’t mind the critics, some people will criticise anything and everything. Just mind your own business.
19. Make the most of it. Typically, Sugar Daddy may have skills, expertise, influence, connections, to help you get ahead in your career and even in life in general. Your sugar daddy can actually be not just your partner, lover, and friend, but also your confidante, mentor, and benefactor. Once you successfully do this, then you’re in for a treat, which means luxury vacations, expensive gifts, fanciest dinners, couture clothes, and lots of money.
20. Appreciate From Your Heart. Remember to be genuine with your partner, especially when it comes to accepting gifts, favors, affections, and other things. As a sugar baby, you will be on the receiving end of a lot of these, so you better brush up on the “Art of Appreciation.” So even if you have nothing to offer your partner but your body, time, and affection, he will feel great that you like the Tiffany earrings or the Lake Como villa vacation. There’s nothing worse than agreeing on a setup and having your partner find out you’ve been faking it all along.
21. Don’t Have Multiple Sugar Daddies. The point of this arrangement is for you to keep this one specific Sugar Daddy pleased. In order to do that, they may require a lot of your time. Part of being a successful Sugar Baby means respecting the wishes of your Sugar Daddy and, in most cases, they do not want to share you.
22. You don't have to keep it a secret. While the identity of your Sugar Daddy needs to be discrete, that you are a Sugar Baby may or may not be kept a secret. Sometimes keeping secrets feeds your own insecurities and self-hatred. So you could just say that you date guys for money. People are usually just curious and respond with “oh cool -- wish I could do that” or “oh cool.”
23. Have Fun. Open his mind to new pleasures and desires. Delight him, surprise him, stimulate him, nurture him, tease him, arouse him, tempt him. And when you leave, he needs to have the broadest smile on his face he has ever had. Giving him a wonderful time and having a wonderful time yourself is the key. Become his d**g. Have Fun.
1. It’s His World. You need to be always aware that you are in it for his pleasure. You are there to fulfil His fantasies. If he is pleased, you are successful. Whatever it is that you do, the experience needs to be fun, enjoyable and relaxing, more particularly for him. Be completely Uninhibited, experimental, passionate and fun loving. Sweet, naughty and loving life to the fullest. You are in it so that he has his fun. Let his wish be your command. Make the experience delightful and memorable for him. Put a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye.
2. Be Discrete. If there is one thing that is more important than all others, and that should be remembered at all times, it is discretion. Most Sugar Daddies have a reputation that needs to be kept professionally. Sugar Daddies could be respected figures in high places and revealing a sugar relationship is not what they may want. A lot of these men want Sugar arrangements to be discrete, unless they let you know otherwise. Don’t even think of posting pics or conversations with them on the Social Media.
3. Put Your Emotions Aside. Sugar Daddies are looking for a drama free, emotion free, fun relationship. So don’t bring in your emotions into the equation.
4. Know what you want. Go over what your needs and wants are. Give it some thought and decide on what it is that you are looking for, how much time you want to devote to being a sugar baby, what activities are ok with you, what activities are a deal breaker, and what will be the minimum below which you would rather not be a sugar baby. Don’t make it all about money though: The sugar daddy has the money, and the sugar baby has the sugar. Both have what the other person wants. Money may be part of the equation, but it’s not a bargaining chip. The relationship is about willfully fulfilling each other’s needs with something you can easily give. Since your relationship is based on a give and take exchange, you have to be decided on what you want to receive.
5. Know what daddy wants. Some want constant companionship, some want to have a trophy girlfriend, and yet others just want to have someone to be on the receiving end of all their affection and gifts. The best and most successful sugar babies know what their sugar daddy wants and they become just that. It’s all about fulfilling a need and getting your reward in return.
6. Agree on an arrangement. For every relationship to run smoothly, you have to set it up on a foundation of mutual agreement. As such, an arrangement must be clear-cut for the both of you so that you can set expectations and avoid misunderstandings and disappointments in the future. Some things may be understood even if not verbalised. For example, that you should be available and respond whenever he texts, calls, emails or decides to drop by your house unexpectedly. Sugar Daddy is giving you a lot of his money, so you should give him your time. After all, that is the arrangement.
7. Develop a sense of humor. Sugar daddies love being entertained. If you think about it, most of their days are spent in very serious atmospheres. They’re professionals so they barely get a lot of time to interact with people on a social level. Being able to entertain them with an appropriate sense of humor will not only keep them grounded, but also it will impress him that you’re able to lighten up his day on or off cue.
8. Invest on your looks. As a sugar baby, you have to take care of yourself. So brush up on your makeup skills, go hit the gym on a regular basis. Your partner would want you to look and feel your best so you can give your very best to them as well. In the end, its the whole package that counts. The Hair, The Nail Colours, Makeup, Clothing and accessories, Shoes, Posture, Attitude, Tattoos, Piercings, Body modifications and Ornamentation...the whole spectrum. Try various combinations, and keep making changes, based on your mood from time to time, so that you always appear fresh to yourself and to your Sugar Daddy. Be a playground for fantasy, desire, love and passion. Play the enchantress and seductress. Be Flirty and Fun. Be Sensual and Sexy. Wear premium clothes and Premium shoes and Scents. Spend on your makeup and grooming.
9. Be Elegant. Nothing beats a beautiful woman who has an ounce of dignity and class. Trotting around the city with your Sugar Daddy on his arm should not be a reason to shy away from the beauty of poise. Stand tall and keep on top of your mannerisms. Dining etiquette, articulating well-formed sentences, physical approach, all of these elements are significant in securing your place as his long-term Sugar Baby.
10. It's more than sex. Its companionship, its romance, its being arm candy, its having a great time together, its having fun. It’s of course also sex. Hardly ever would you find a Sugar Daddy Sugar Baby relationship where sex is not involved. In fact sex could be the fulcrum of the relationship…but its not just sex.
11. Treat it as a way of Life. Treat the sugar baby role as a way of life rather than a job. Let Pleasure be your passion. Always dress to impress, and enjoy the attention and admiring glances.
12. Develop your IQ. Subscribe to some newspapers and Magazines, Watch News on TV. While no one hires you for your intellect, having one helps. Having a good knowledge of happenings in the world, books, fashion trends etc is always helpful. Remember, its companionship, its reassurance. And Intelligence is sexy too...!
13. Work on Yourself. Always maintain notes. What you wore the last time...what excited him more....what made him happy.
14. Be Confident and Be Fun. That Sugar daddy is ready to part with his money to have you should build your confidence and self esteem. When a man is paying you, it obviously shows how desirable you are. Exude Confidence. And once you have thought out your course, and got into it, remember, there is no point in resisting anymore. So Accept your new life, and the moment you accept it, it becomes enjoyable. Know and accept your new place, your new role, that of being Fun. Let your life revolve around Pleasure, Fun, and Sugar Daddy. Awesome things will happen once you start seeing the fun side of your role. Believe in the credo that Do whatever you want in life as long as you don't hurt yourself or anyone else in the process. Believe that you need to give yourself over to the one you are with completely.
15. Smile. Its the sexiest curve on your body. Have an open, relaxed body language. Loosen up. Keep things positive. Let him feel that you are enjoying it as much as he is. Even if you are not getting as much pleasure as you hoped to, or something is causing a distraction in the pleasure, fake it. You can’t be beautiful if you are grumpy.
16. Think Sexy. Try to create a sexual perspective for most things. Think sexy. Be sexy. As you try to give everything sexual overtones, your mind starts getting transformed. You learn that you are born to make Sugar Daddy’s life happy and pleasurable.
17. It’s a Relationship and Not Escorting. By no stretch of imagination does being a Sugar Baby even come remotely close to being an escort, as some would have you believe. A prostitute and a client have a transactional relationship. They meet, exchange funds, and participate in some sort of physical act and part ways. Typically, this is a one time occurrence. A job. There is no relationship, and no possibility for a relationship. And that is the key difference really: Relationship. Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies have on-going relationships, not transactions. More often than not, a Sugar relationship will resemble that of a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. There are real connections and real possibilities at romance, something that is not in the realm of possibility with an escort or prostitute. Just because a relationship doesn’t follow the traditional rules of courtship, doesn’t mean it isn’t valid. It also doesn’t mean it’s i*****l. A sugar baby is a woman who wants to date financially secure men who can provide her with the lifestyle she desires. She’s selective about who she dates; a prostitute isn’t picky about who she takes on as a client.
18. Shut off the Critics. Look at yourself as a Business woman who is providing a service. Like any other Woman who is an entrepreneur. As a Sugar Baby, you are just providing a service, like a doctor or a lawyer or an auto mechanic does. If Sugar Daddy wants to do it and Sugar Baby wants to do it too, how can it be wrong? Have you heard of a crime, where no one is complaining? Sugar Baby could be Sugar Daddy’s companion, arm candy, or even serious wife material. Some people really are just looking for someone to shower all their love, affection, and money on, and you just happen to love receiving all those. As with anything you do, don’t mind the critics, some people will criticise anything and everything. Just mind your own business.
19. Make the most of it. Typically, Sugar Daddy may have skills, expertise, influence, connections, to help you get ahead in your career and even in life in general. Your sugar daddy can actually be not just your partner, lover, and friend, but also your confidante, mentor, and benefactor. Once you successfully do this, then you’re in for a treat, which means luxury vacations, expensive gifts, fanciest dinners, couture clothes, and lots of money.
20. Appreciate From Your Heart. Remember to be genuine with your partner, especially when it comes to accepting gifts, favors, affections, and other things. As a sugar baby, you will be on the receiving end of a lot of these, so you better brush up on the “Art of Appreciation.” So even if you have nothing to offer your partner but your body, time, and affection, he will feel great that you like the Tiffany earrings or the Lake Como villa vacation. There’s nothing worse than agreeing on a setup and having your partner find out you’ve been faking it all along.
21. Don’t Have Multiple Sugar Daddies. The point of this arrangement is for you to keep this one specific Sugar Daddy pleased. In order to do that, they may require a lot of your time. Part of being a successful Sugar Baby means respecting the wishes of your Sugar Daddy and, in most cases, they do not want to share you.
22. You don't have to keep it a secret. While the identity of your Sugar Daddy needs to be discrete, that you are a Sugar Baby may or may not be kept a secret. Sometimes keeping secrets feeds your own insecurities and self-hatred. So you could just say that you date guys for money. People are usually just curious and respond with “oh cool -- wish I could do that” or “oh cool.”
23. Have Fun. Open his mind to new pleasures and desires. Delight him, surprise him, stimulate him, nurture him, tease him, arouse him, tempt him. And when you leave, he needs to have the broadest smile on his face he has ever had. Giving him a wonderful time and having a wonderful time yourself is the key. Become his d**g. Have Fun.
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