Why I watch porn
well: relaxing sometimes ;)
I prefer these black and white porns: the guys are trained as we would like to be ;-)))
and they moan - sometimes they even come too early ... and they make sex with sexy middle-aged women... (not like these German porns where the guys are ugly and talk like plumbers at work: the most awful versions of porn...)
And I like much lesbian porn: they show feelings as well and they have mostly wonderful slow sex beginning with caressing each other (the skin is an organ !), and slowly working up to their climax...
they take their time to explore each other - wonderful...
and for the sake of seeing middle aged sexy women these mom-and-boy clips: a fantasy which most of us missed in our teen age.... would have been much more easier to enter into the erotic world with a little help from an experienced person at that age ;)
Then the other point: male orgasms:
My impression is the longer I am wanking the more explosive get my orgasms.
Sure: when I am doing it with myself I am having the full control over my pleasure.
But that I can have also when I am with my gal...
But but..... always only missionary with some necking, petting ?? Because she is having some problems with her back ? Because she cannot switch so easily into other positions as she is a bit more curvy ??
It is not „work“ with her - it is pleasure.... but I want to have this for a longer time than the German average of 10 to 12 minutes, d.... it ! For her it is getting long with the time.... I don't get it.................
6 weeks not seeing each other resp. not making love. Then: she orgasms several times....then pause.... then I come..... she observes that this time every time she thought I was coming I didn't come and when I came at last she did not notice it............we should restart to find our rhythm together.... OK.
Next day after a pause she says that she had the impression I was only looking for my own pleasure instead of her's.... just the opposite of what I felt as I was looking to be on the same wave of pleasure as she was....
and for a time she was „somewhere else“....great.... only my pleasure ?....shit....
that was exactly the phrase of some woman about her guy who wanted also to ENJOY as long as possible: she complained about his pure egoism.....
Either you come too quick = lousy. Or you enjoy - sure: also for your own pleasure ! - always on the brink of orgasm.....
We are quite frank talking about it and I had told her about this egoism observation some time before: which means: men always do it the wrong way...
That's why I watch porn ;)
P.S.
getting hot watching porn - and then a great orgasm fantasizing about her.......
not just that .... sometime awkward finishing for her.... (no idea if women ever think about male pleasure.... on these sites certainly not....OK: and vice versa....)
I guess we have to be more frank or need a sexual the****ut....;)
looking for this link in The Guardian where the woman also complained about the guy keeping
(his - not her ?? ) pleasure as long as possible being an egoist.... can't find it....
Well - typical problems of end fifty agers ;-)))
I prefer these black and white porns: the guys are trained as we would like to be ;-)))
and they moan - sometimes they even come too early ... and they make sex with sexy middle-aged women... (not like these German porns where the guys are ugly and talk like plumbers at work: the most awful versions of porn...)
And I like much lesbian porn: they show feelings as well and they have mostly wonderful slow sex beginning with caressing each other (the skin is an organ !), and slowly working up to their climax...
they take their time to explore each other - wonderful...
and for the sake of seeing middle aged sexy women these mom-and-boy clips: a fantasy which most of us missed in our teen age.... would have been much more easier to enter into the erotic world with a little help from an experienced person at that age ;)
Then the other point: male orgasms:
My impression is the longer I am wanking the more explosive get my orgasms.
Sure: when I am doing it with myself I am having the full control over my pleasure.
But that I can have also when I am with my gal...
But but..... always only missionary with some necking, petting ?? Because she is having some problems with her back ? Because she cannot switch so easily into other positions as she is a bit more curvy ??
It is not „work“ with her - it is pleasure.... but I want to have this for a longer time than the German average of 10 to 12 minutes, d.... it ! For her it is getting long with the time.... I don't get it.................
6 weeks not seeing each other resp. not making love. Then: she orgasms several times....then pause.... then I come..... she observes that this time every time she thought I was coming I didn't come and when I came at last she did not notice it............we should restart to find our rhythm together.... OK.
Next day after a pause she says that she had the impression I was only looking for my own pleasure instead of her's.... just the opposite of what I felt as I was looking to be on the same wave of pleasure as she was....
and for a time she was „somewhere else“....great.... only my pleasure ?....shit....
that was exactly the phrase of some woman about her guy who wanted also to ENJOY as long as possible: she complained about his pure egoism.....
Either you come too quick = lousy. Or you enjoy - sure: also for your own pleasure ! - always on the brink of orgasm.....
We are quite frank talking about it and I had told her about this egoism observation some time before: which means: men always do it the wrong way...
That's why I watch porn ;)
P.S.
getting hot watching porn - and then a great orgasm fantasizing about her.......
not just that .... sometime awkward finishing for her.... (no idea if women ever think about male pleasure.... on these sites certainly not....OK: and vice versa....)
I guess we have to be more frank or need a sexual the****ut....;)
looking for this link in The Guardian where the woman also complained about the guy keeping
(his - not her ?? ) pleasure as long as possible being an egoist.... can't find it....
Well - typical problems of end fifty agers ;-)))
7 年 前