Definition of a Dom
**Definition of a Dom
"To me a Dom is a strong man, sure of themselves, confident in their place in society. They cherish females, revel in their presence. They are giving, caring, loving and understanding. Domination is not simply giving random orders. As the Dominant member of the relationship the Dom must be His submissive's emotional protector, teacher, and lover. The Dom’s relationship with the submissive is one of respect for her choice of position and status. With their own submissive -whether she be a slave, their possession or casual plaything - it is one of love, worships, discovery, slowly possesses the soul. The Dom gently pushes her, always ready to show her that she is strong, that her limits are not what she believes them to be, that she can be taken further. In this, the Dom reveals to His sub her own confidence, her own levels of self-esteem. Eventually an understanding begins to take place between Dom and sub. He senses her desires, her needs, her passions. With this knowledge, the Dom takes care of the sub, always giving her what she needs - which is not necessarily what she presumes she needs nor what she says she "wants". It is the Dom's responsibility to care for, protect and love His sub. If she is sick, He will feed her. If she is exhausted, He will allow her to rest. If she is frightened, He will comfort her. If she needs affection, He will hold her. These things He does willingly because He knows her. He understands her as no one else does. He has seen into her soul and held it in His hands. her mind is His to read, and to know. her body is His to feel. her heart is His to caress. He owns her. She is His possession. The Dom does not take away the sub's identity. Rather, He allows her to grow into her own being, her own likeness. her submission to him is not a vehicle or punishment or hatred, but one of love and development. she is given the room to come into her own under her Dom's care, like a flower that flourishes under the sun's warmth. she radiates from His love and devotion. she becomes a rose, a beautiful being that knows she is loved and cared for.
A Dom does not mold a sub into what He feels she should be. Rather, He allows her the freedom to live and grow under His loving care. she becomes the woman she has always been, deep within her spirit. As Dom, the gift of submission is taken seriously, knowing that it is not given freely or lightly. He always remembers how precious the gift is, how rare it is, how beautiful it is. For it is something that cannot be taken for granted."**
Copied with permission from Starla_Devine
"To me a Dom is a strong man, sure of themselves, confident in their place in society. They cherish females, revel in their presence. They are giving, caring, loving and understanding. Domination is not simply giving random orders. As the Dominant member of the relationship the Dom must be His submissive's emotional protector, teacher, and lover. The Dom’s relationship with the submissive is one of respect for her choice of position and status. With their own submissive -whether she be a slave, their possession or casual plaything - it is one of love, worships, discovery, slowly possesses the soul. The Dom gently pushes her, always ready to show her that she is strong, that her limits are not what she believes them to be, that she can be taken further. In this, the Dom reveals to His sub her own confidence, her own levels of self-esteem. Eventually an understanding begins to take place between Dom and sub. He senses her desires, her needs, her passions. With this knowledge, the Dom takes care of the sub, always giving her what she needs - which is not necessarily what she presumes she needs nor what she says she "wants". It is the Dom's responsibility to care for, protect and love His sub. If she is sick, He will feed her. If she is exhausted, He will allow her to rest. If she is frightened, He will comfort her. If she needs affection, He will hold her. These things He does willingly because He knows her. He understands her as no one else does. He has seen into her soul and held it in His hands. her mind is His to read, and to know. her body is His to feel. her heart is His to caress. He owns her. She is His possession. The Dom does not take away the sub's identity. Rather, He allows her to grow into her own being, her own likeness. her submission to him is not a vehicle or punishment or hatred, but one of love and development. she is given the room to come into her own under her Dom's care, like a flower that flourishes under the sun's warmth. she radiates from His love and devotion. she becomes a rose, a beautiful being that knows she is loved and cared for.
A Dom does not mold a sub into what He feels she should be. Rather, He allows her the freedom to live and grow under His loving care. she becomes the woman she has always been, deep within her spirit. As Dom, the gift of submission is taken seriously, knowing that it is not given freely or lightly. He always remembers how precious the gift is, how rare it is, how beautiful it is. For it is something that cannot be taken for granted."**
Copied with permission from Starla_Devine
9 年 前
