Infidelity, Adultery, just Plain old Cheating. Not
I think it was "European Vacation", in Paris where the hotelier told Clark Griswold, "Ah yes, to have an affair is French. To get caught is American. That is funny and mostly true. Cheating has become commonplace in our society, although most people denounce it, hypocritically.
For me, I could never do it and haven't. I'm not a good liar (why I also am not better in poker), and I won't do that to anyone who loves me, even if they don't down the road or vice versa. I can't purposely destroy someone for my own selfish desires and then have the gall to say, " I didn't mean to hurt you." If you cheat, don't say that to the hurt one...ever. Because that is exactly what your actions did. HURT! You thought you could keep on living the lie and get away with it. Remember, after a while you lie to cover up lies until you bury yourself!
Be fucking honest. Be an adult. You want someone else, fine. Break your relationship off first. We all owe it to each other for all the good times and for the attraction that brought you together in the first place. End on good terms, don't lose respect from others or yourself. How good can you feel after cheating on someone you cared for? I know it can't be good, how could it right?
We're all human and make mistakes. And staying faithful is very hard with all the beautiful people all over the world. Just make better choices and we will all benefit.
Personally, I couldn't deal with 1 gal much less 2 at a time. It's hard to keep a woman happy. I've tried and will keep on trying. But juggle 2 women at a time, only in a 3-way fantasy!!
I've never seen my friends or family out fucking around. What do u do if u saw that? Do u say nothing or be a rat? Either way 1 person in the couple will hate you....lose/lose situation. If I saw someone I may not tell, but I sure would see them differently. Less respect as a friend or relative. Why did they have to subject you to his/her affair. Like it or not, you are in the conspiracy web and not by your doing! I couldn't imaging putting anyone in that uneasy situation. What a dick move!
It may seem fun and exciting at first, but when reality hits and the fun is over 1 person is heartbroken, and the other is still just a selfish asshole!
For me, I could never do it and haven't. I'm not a good liar (why I also am not better in poker), and I won't do that to anyone who loves me, even if they don't down the road or vice versa. I can't purposely destroy someone for my own selfish desires and then have the gall to say, " I didn't mean to hurt you." If you cheat, don't say that to the hurt one...ever. Because that is exactly what your actions did. HURT! You thought you could keep on living the lie and get away with it. Remember, after a while you lie to cover up lies until you bury yourself!
Be fucking honest. Be an adult. You want someone else, fine. Break your relationship off first. We all owe it to each other for all the good times and for the attraction that brought you together in the first place. End on good terms, don't lose respect from others or yourself. How good can you feel after cheating on someone you cared for? I know it can't be good, how could it right?
We're all human and make mistakes. And staying faithful is very hard with all the beautiful people all over the world. Just make better choices and we will all benefit.
Personally, I couldn't deal with 1 gal much less 2 at a time. It's hard to keep a woman happy. I've tried and will keep on trying. But juggle 2 women at a time, only in a 3-way fantasy!!
I've never seen my friends or family out fucking around. What do u do if u saw that? Do u say nothing or be a rat? Either way 1 person in the couple will hate you....lose/lose situation. If I saw someone I may not tell, but I sure would see them differently. Less respect as a friend or relative. Why did they have to subject you to his/her affair. Like it or not, you are in the conspiracy web and not by your doing! I couldn't imaging putting anyone in that uneasy situation. What a dick move!
It may seem fun and exciting at first, but when reality hits and the fun is over 1 person is heartbroken, and the other is still just a selfish asshole!
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