Another blog entry,,,,,a little transparency.

Other working girls will kill me for this, but I don't think many people come on this site to read anyway. I recently had a client give me a 20 minute diatribe about why he prefers paying over relationships. Everything he said I agreed with except one thing. He said that for him they are the same. I am here to tell you and all my clients that it is NOT the same as a real relationship. Our commitment to each other is solely financial. If that s gone the relationship is gone. A real relationship is based on many things and any or one of those things can sustain it. During a working agreement, I am there to please you, not vice versa. Even if the agreement is for you to pleasure me, then 98%% of the time , I'm playing the role. I've been doing this since 2009 and in all four years I've only had an orgasm twice during a working session. I don't care how big you are or how long you can go, if I mentally shut it down, an orgasm will not happen. My point is a paying relationship is one way, that's how it should be, that's the professional way. If you do have a working relationship with a girl who expects it to be a two-way thing, then you are really setting yourself up for trouble. So,I will repeat, using working girls instead of having relationships is perfectly fine and normal but don't expect them to be the same because it will never be that way!