Please tell me why?

Okay, I just have to vent a bit. Please tell me why it is that in most of the porn movies the ending is the guy jerking off? What's up with that?

Honestly now guys, how many times in real life have you had to jerk your own cock to cum after being sucked and fucked by a beautiful girl? It just doesn't happen like that.

Most of the time when I am having sex the guy can barely pull his cock out of my tight pussy before it explodes! I have never had a guy have to jerk himself off to cum after fucking me. And if I have my sweet lips wrapped around his cock many times he never even gets to fuck me because his cum ends up all over my face and on my tongue!

And girls, tell the truth now, isn't it an insult to your sexual skills to have a guy jerk off to cum? How many times has that happened to you?

I love porn videos, but I get so upset when the guy has to jerk himself off. Send some of those hard cocks my way...I'll make them cum!!!

If you have links to videos where the guy cums without jerking himself off, please send them to me so I can enjoy some reality. I'll make it worth your while by telling you how I am masturbating as I watch.

发布者 ruffredmuff

14 年前

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Interesting post. When you're not doing it yourself it can be harder to get a lot out, I find it easier to just jerk it everywhere because I know when I'm done. IMO it's not an insult, it's more of a reward for them because they're waiting for it and you can get better volume that way.

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Orson2 13 年前

"If you have links to videos where the guy cums without jerking himself off, please send them to me so I can enjoy some reality."

An example of a porn video series taking advantage of diverging form old porn convention is "Internal Violations" - now turned into a web site collecting them all:
http://www.rabbitsreviews.com/s2302/Internal-Violations.html

Here's one online:"Internal violations orgy part1"
http://swapclips.com/internal-violations-orgy-part1-105068.html

And there were imitators of that product line. Anyone want to help out with them?

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Orson2 13 年前

Here's is a worthy corollary question: since the "money shot" is a porn convention, why is the man's enjoyment in straight porn so rarely - if ever otherwise - shown in porn? Why is the female experience always the focus?

I think I known the answer: and it explains why porn stars like Sasha Grey prefer gay porn to straight (which she used a great deal to influence her oeuvre).

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Orson2 13 年前

I think Linda's question answers itself by the rise and rise of reality porn in the last decade! People do not relate to certain porn sex conventions like "the money shot."

As "crazyhillbilly" notes, "porn is really not sex its acting."

Nevertheless, the convention has spawned a fetish cult - cum shots, culminating in Bukkake porn. Go figure.

But this leads to an observation about the ubiquity of cum among the young ~ it can go EVERYWHERE! It can last long and be large in amounts. And once a girl gets into the show, she wants more, More, MORE! Isn't this display of fertilizer kind of a turn on....? Prodigious? Exciting? A-mazing? And therefore worth seeing and celebrating?

Of course, whether or not it is well done is another matter.

Finally, someone hits the domination/submission symbolism where a female waxes orgasmic in sympathy with a mans orgasm and ejaculation. I think this means the convention holds interest as men and women grow older because of this power element: just as males cum differently and at different times and ways (again, typically), we connect and show ourselves off differently at orgasm.

The fact that all this goes on - typically, "normally" - inside a woman obscures a lot of visual and sexual excitement. And if you were making shows, why not maximize the product?

My feeling is that this last point is where the obscenity (ie, literally, off stage) component of the erotic convention derives from: showing and thereby celebrating masculine pleasure!

Fortunately, THIS ain't the 1980s. YOu can pick and choose as you please - and please your partners as you want to do! Hats off (another cum shot!) to that.

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latinmusclestud 13 年前

I never had that problem before, however,
I am going to be honest with you... Last weekend I had to jack myself off to cum and I was fucking a girl in the ass, but she was too tight and couldn't take it (she's older and had been doing anal her whole life) There are pics of it on my page... But after about 30 mins. I was still rock hard and she couldn't take it anymore so I had to stroke it hard and fast for a good 2 minutes and gave her an anal cream pie... Most girls can't take more than 40 minutes of anal with a thick cock... Mine is just under 7" around, I can also cum four times in a row without losing erection... Everyone usually says that women always outlast men, well that's never happend to me...

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mikey1ra 14 年前

it is because of the cum (money) shot pro porn is full of it. they want you to believe it is real lots of distractions on a porn set. so cream pies or amature

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pantylover590 14 年前

I believe this is done for the camera. I have always wondered the same thing myself. I assure you, when I cum, the only way you will see my load is to wait for it to drip out of your pussy. Or what ever you waste running down your chin. One way or the other, it would be inside you!

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Daydreamer777 14 年前

hmmm, quite a good question

I guess it's about stupid fantasies of domination and superiority when it comes to the pop-shot

I don't like to see it either

in fact, I don't like seeing men in porn at all, they boter me

guys who enjoy seeing other guys ahving sex ... weird

if you read some comments on this site, you will find men cheering for the male actors

seeing wobbling man-cheeks, anus and bouncing balls really isn't such a turn-on

if you like to see "real porn" (geez, whant an oxymoron), look for vintage scenes or fast forward to the end, it doesn't spoil the movie

and if you find what you're looking for, rewind and watch the whole thing

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andyoranges 14 年前

The only reason I have ever done it was because the woman wanted to see me masturbate.....in fact, sometimes that was what she wanted, without intercourse. When I did, I would cum on her belly, not in her face - can't imagine ANY woman really wanting that. There is (for me, at least) something very erotic about masturbating while my woman watches me, and knowing that she likes it is HOT! But otherwise, I'd rather finish off inside of her.

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Most guys shoot in the face because they love the idea of crushing the girls spirit and treating her like a total whore. I prefer to finish in the pussy, doggy style as i pound her getting the whip lash effect of her ass. Or one leg in the air, fucking her sideways, pounding until i cum.

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petdyke 14 年前

Look for real amateur porn! Only a part of them try to imitate commercial flicks with face-cummings!
Good porn is rare - and best is women-oriented

We want no acting, but only real joy of sex!

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lifeform 14 年前

Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way. Too many times the guy (male porn star) has to take control in order to cum. It probably has something to do with the fact that they have to cum several times a day. But really, as a guy, I'd much rather watch the woman make the guy cum. Otherwise I'm basically jacking off watching another guy jack off. Sometimes it's a huge turn off for me, so I generally avoid those videos.

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LiftingLarge 14 年前

I was good with everything up until the end comment. There is no substance or compound that makes a cock bigger than natural. HGH, won't do it. Testosterone (regardless of ester), d-bol, deca, trenbolone, masteron, prima, anavar... the list goes on. None of them touch the dick as far as size is concerned. The will make the ball shrink though, but that's where HCG comes in.

As for me, I'd definitely rather the girl finished things off. Otherwise I figure what's the point - is she really even into it or since she got hers does she just feel obligated now?

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lunchbucket 14 年前

When I was 19-30 I couldn't hardly see a girl naked without shooting my load. Now, it is different.

Average sex session last 45 mins to an hour.

My wife enjoys a little help toward the end. I don't feel it is an insult to her skill at all. More like we are on different time tables.

I appreciates that she sticks around til i am done.

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tonyk1965 14 年前

http://xhamster.com/movies/327512/mature_kristine_gets_a_creampie.html

here is a good vid for you with no jerking off.
hope u enjoy it. tk

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seanmcpherson 14 年前

It just depends. I REALLY love cuming in a girls mouth. Especially one who really knows what she's doing and doesn't stop sucking.

BUT, I sometimes will pull out a little early in order to jack off on her tits. I think the visual is hot and so do many of my partners.

I do completely agree that there is way, WAY too much jacking off in porn.

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Luv2Cum4U 14 年前

I agree. I can understand stroking it at times to help keep the erection hard, but when it's time to orgasm I sure as hell would rather have the girl take matters into her own hands.

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norrinradd 14 年前

this is a really good question and I've always wondered about it myself. It's always more of a turn on if the girl jerks him off. (and if you ask me, it feels a lot better too).

My only guess is that a guy might have more control while he's jerking than when a girl is stroking him. If it's for a facial, he might have better aim than she would (although a lot of porn guys get it in her eye anyway)

I know I have some vids in my favorites where a girl finishes him off...I'll find them and send 'em your way.

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crazyhillbilly 14 年前

Well to tell the truth the stunt cocks in porn are usually not natural meaning they take human growth hormones and other performance enhancement drugs so their cocks are bigger than natural and get hard and stay hard. But they effect the performers ability to actually enjoy sex and its very difficult for them to orgasm. Plus watch some behind the scenes movies and a lot of the times they are stopping and starting and there are distractions and what not going on. So porn is really not sex its acting. Oh and a lot of these guys do gay porn as well so maybe they really don't like women.

Now in real life no I have no clue why these guys have to jerk off. I hate it!! Your getting you cock sucked and fucking a beautiful woman why would you stop to jerk off. I will find you some good no hands involved cum shots and send it your way.

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