Self-destructive behavior of loved ones?

And it should not be a big deal, but I've never had sex with someone whom I did not have a steady relationship with. And I get attached easy, especially if we are gonna do the greatest of shared activities: sex. So when it would be over, and we went our separate ways, I would feel a little sad, and maybe say something stupid like, "You don't have to do that anymore!" But I already know how I react so I'll be prepared, and won't say a thing. Which brings to light how hard it would be for me to have a steady relationship with a hooker. I don't rekon I would pursue such a thing. And so we wonder why with all the opprotunities and necceseties bestowed upon her, why does she continue to turn tricks. Have you told her how you felt? Do you really even feel that way? Because it's not my place to assume that given the testimony posted in the section. It is apparent that you are pretty disgusted with the behavior though, and I think it's because you care. I'm not a psychiatrist but I have thought about causes of behavior because of the turmoil my family has been going through. And it could be that something happened a long time ago that has begun to take a toll if you will on one's sense of well-being. Often they are not even aware of what it is, but it is there. okay, taking a break on this for now,