Cocksucking fantasies won’t kill you
Here is a test. Go to the link below, and watch from exactly three minutes in (when the gorgeous French lady comes to the door). Watch the scene right through to the end; it lasts about seven minutes. Then come back here and see if your reaction matches mine.
https://xhamster.com/videos/sweeterotica2-7105496
Watched it? What did you think? When I first saw it, I was neither looking for nor expecting a femdom scene about men cocksucking and wanking each other, but I was shocked by my reaction. It's horny, isn't it?
At first I made up my mind that it was the femdom aspect that hooked me and - let's face it - is there a man in the world who would not do whatever that perfect specimen of womanhood ordered? So I immediately added it to my favourites, returning to it, again and again, as a masturbation aid, and also went in search of clips and scenes of a similar genre. It took me to, among others, Mistress T, a femdom who specialises in humiliating men, often by ordering them to suck cocks, supposedly against their will.
Now I was really into the idea of being made to suck a cock and (to a lesser extent) wank a man off, but when my searches took me to scenes that went a step further, into truly bisexual acts, going beyond basic sucking or wanking, my erection fell flat. I guess that is the distinction between between bicurious and bisexual - or at least it defines it for me.
The more I watched and the more I thought about it, the more I realised I didn't require the femdom aspect to enjoy the fantasy of sucking a cock, but also started to think it is probably a far more common fantasy for men than you might think.
I reckoned that if you could only get us to admit it, most of us would say they have thought about sucking a cock at some stage. After all, we worship our own, and if we have seen any amount of porn, it's impossible to ignore the rock-hard cock that features in the majority of scenes. Face it: whether you like it or not, or have even realised it, you are a discerning viewer of cocks. You are disappointed to see a limp one, and when you notice one that you consider unattractive, logic dictates that you therefore find some of them attractive.
And here's the clincher: when you have watched hundreds and probably thousands of women take a hard one in her mouth, it is inevitable that, at some stage, your focus will wander - and instead of being the giver, you will start to think about how it would feel to be the receiver. Deny it if you like, but even if you really hadn't thought about it before: you are now.
Does it threaten your ego or your masculinity? And should it make you ashamed? Or are you able to put that out of your mind and accept that if you are enjoying it and nobody is being harmed, it can only be good? Is there any point in denial?
But it's not just about admitting it to yourself, and coming to terms with it in your own mind, because if you have a partner and you don't have secrets between you, there will come a time when you have to admit it to her, too.
My wife (J) has a knee-jerk reaction to suggestions for adding anything new to our sexual repertoire, which is mainly alarm and concern how it might "escalate". So it was not easy to tell her: "It's like this, darling: I get hard watching men suck each other's cocks." Once she had calmed herself, though, and reassured herself that it doesn't mean I am going to leave her for a gay lover, we both realised that nobody died, the world hadn't stopped turning, nothing had changed - and it was therefore a completely harmless diversion from my usual adventures into self-propelled pornographic pleasure.
I have been told that women often get turned on by the idea of sex acts between two men (which would be a very good reason, on its own, to pursue it), but J insists it "does nothing for me". Neither does seeing, helping or ordering me to suck a lifelike dildo arouse her, which is a shame. My ultimate fantasies would be sharing a blowjob with her - taking in turns to suck a man off - or fucklicking, but only if she enjoyed the kinkiness of it, too (which she says she wouldn't).
Not that any cocksucking scenario would ever happen in reality, anyway. Not for us. We are long-married and completely devoted to each other, having never had sex with anybody else (honest). So part of the sexual buzz between us is knowing sex is only for us and neither of us will ever touch another person. Or - to use a very old-fashioned word - we would never be 'unfaithful' - and that includes resisting a temptation that she is physically unable to provide for me, or me for her. Unless J grows a cock of her own, anytime soon, this is one fantasy that will always be only that. The best I can hope for is she will take the hint about getting a strap-on.
How far does my bicurious arousal go? My initial thoughts about the sucking were governed by wanting to find out how it felt, although I seem to have progressed to the point where I am pretty sure I would enjoy it enough to want to do it again. But the jury is still out on whether seeing a blowjob through to its creamy conclusion is something I would also enjoy. Again, I am fascinated by how it would feel (and taste) to have another man's cum in my mouth, which would be the incentive for the first time, but I am less sure that it would be pleasurable enough to repeat. But who knows?
Then there is the question of another man sucking me off. I have a theory that a man might give a more pleasurable experience than a woman, simply because he knows what it is like to be on the receiving end, so has a better idea of which buttons to press. Again, fascination is the driver, and I somehow think it would always be less thrilling than being a receiver.
I suspect there are many men out there who are confused about what they feel about the above, and perhaps try to suppress any arousal they might experience at the thought. My message to them is: don't.
From chatting to other guys on here, I suspect that although only a minority of men have ever had another man's cock in their mouths, a majority would love to know what it is like to experience it.
So, let's relax, guys. Getting hot about cocks is cooler than you think.
https://xhamster.com/videos/sweeterotica2-7105496
Watched it? What did you think? When I first saw it, I was neither looking for nor expecting a femdom scene about men cocksucking and wanking each other, but I was shocked by my reaction. It's horny, isn't it?
At first I made up my mind that it was the femdom aspect that hooked me and - let's face it - is there a man in the world who would not do whatever that perfect specimen of womanhood ordered? So I immediately added it to my favourites, returning to it, again and again, as a masturbation aid, and also went in search of clips and scenes of a similar genre. It took me to, among others, Mistress T, a femdom who specialises in humiliating men, often by ordering them to suck cocks, supposedly against their will.
Now I was really into the idea of being made to suck a cock and (to a lesser extent) wank a man off, but when my searches took me to scenes that went a step further, into truly bisexual acts, going beyond basic sucking or wanking, my erection fell flat. I guess that is the distinction between between bicurious and bisexual - or at least it defines it for me.
The more I watched and the more I thought about it, the more I realised I didn't require the femdom aspect to enjoy the fantasy of sucking a cock, but also started to think it is probably a far more common fantasy for men than you might think.
I reckoned that if you could only get us to admit it, most of us would say they have thought about sucking a cock at some stage. After all, we worship our own, and if we have seen any amount of porn, it's impossible to ignore the rock-hard cock that features in the majority of scenes. Face it: whether you like it or not, or have even realised it, you are a discerning viewer of cocks. You are disappointed to see a limp one, and when you notice one that you consider unattractive, logic dictates that you therefore find some of them attractive.
And here's the clincher: when you have watched hundreds and probably thousands of women take a hard one in her mouth, it is inevitable that, at some stage, your focus will wander - and instead of being the giver, you will start to think about how it would feel to be the receiver. Deny it if you like, but even if you really hadn't thought about it before: you are now.
Does it threaten your ego or your masculinity? And should it make you ashamed? Or are you able to put that out of your mind and accept that if you are enjoying it and nobody is being harmed, it can only be good? Is there any point in denial?
But it's not just about admitting it to yourself, and coming to terms with it in your own mind, because if you have a partner and you don't have secrets between you, there will come a time when you have to admit it to her, too.
My wife (J) has a knee-jerk reaction to suggestions for adding anything new to our sexual repertoire, which is mainly alarm and concern how it might "escalate". So it was not easy to tell her: "It's like this, darling: I get hard watching men suck each other's cocks." Once she had calmed herself, though, and reassured herself that it doesn't mean I am going to leave her for a gay lover, we both realised that nobody died, the world hadn't stopped turning, nothing had changed - and it was therefore a completely harmless diversion from my usual adventures into self-propelled pornographic pleasure.
I have been told that women often get turned on by the idea of sex acts between two men (which would be a very good reason, on its own, to pursue it), but J insists it "does nothing for me". Neither does seeing, helping or ordering me to suck a lifelike dildo arouse her, which is a shame. My ultimate fantasies would be sharing a blowjob with her - taking in turns to suck a man off - or fucklicking, but only if she enjoyed the kinkiness of it, too (which she says she wouldn't).
Not that any cocksucking scenario would ever happen in reality, anyway. Not for us. We are long-married and completely devoted to each other, having never had sex with anybody else (honest). So part of the sexual buzz between us is knowing sex is only for us and neither of us will ever touch another person. Or - to use a very old-fashioned word - we would never be 'unfaithful' - and that includes resisting a temptation that she is physically unable to provide for me, or me for her. Unless J grows a cock of her own, anytime soon, this is one fantasy that will always be only that. The best I can hope for is she will take the hint about getting a strap-on.
How far does my bicurious arousal go? My initial thoughts about the sucking were governed by wanting to find out how it felt, although I seem to have progressed to the point where I am pretty sure I would enjoy it enough to want to do it again. But the jury is still out on whether seeing a blowjob through to its creamy conclusion is something I would also enjoy. Again, I am fascinated by how it would feel (and taste) to have another man's cum in my mouth, which would be the incentive for the first time, but I am less sure that it would be pleasurable enough to repeat. But who knows?
Then there is the question of another man sucking me off. I have a theory that a man might give a more pleasurable experience than a woman, simply because he knows what it is like to be on the receiving end, so has a better idea of which buttons to press. Again, fascination is the driver, and I somehow think it would always be less thrilling than being a receiver.
I suspect there are many men out there who are confused about what they feel about the above, and perhaps try to suppress any arousal they might experience at the thought. My message to them is: don't.
From chatting to other guys on here, I suspect that although only a minority of men have ever had another man's cock in their mouths, a majority would love to know what it is like to experience it.
So, let's relax, guys. Getting hot about cocks is cooler than you think.
1 年 前
One fantasy that aligns with the scene you have highlighted is a bi threesome with frotting. . . having a woman rub my cock against another man's, teasing our cockheads together, stroking us both as one, and taking us both at the same time in her mouth, her pussy, or even her ass. . . Oh, yes, that pushes the envelope for some folks, but I love the idea.