Facials- when your guy insists
So your boyfriend insists you let him cum on your face, but you're reluctant.
It's something he sexually can't do without, while you haven't done it and never even imagined you will.
A tricky situation, as you just might be with that wonderful and perfect "right" guy you've always dreamed about, yet it all could be jeapordized.
But if you're in a loving, caring relationship, he won't just give up. He'll want to fullfil his sexual needs with you, not anyone else.
If he loves you and cares for your relationship, fully expect him to try and convince you.
Generally, there could be two issues he'll try to adress: either it's a mental hang-up, as you might view facials in a negative context (degrading), or you have a physical issue of aversion to cum. He knows it's entirely possible for you to overcome both. Communication is the key.
Hear him out when he explains and reassures you that the reason he wants to facial you is not to offend, as that would make no sense, but rather what turns him on is your acceptance. He'll stress the fact that guys love to cum on the face of women they find beautiful, sexy, and attractive, and you can definatly feel flattered when he says that's the reason he wants to cum on your's.
He'll make you see that just as he shows love and appreciation outside the bedroom, he strives to show that during sex. As you are in a relationship, you likely already know his character, and that it's safe to assume he doesn't intend to harm or degrade you.
Another point he'll convey is that nowadays facials are no longer perceived as degrading, but are rather a staple of many women's sexual repertoire, so it's reasonable for him to expect you to incorporate it to yours.
One way to visualizing facials as a positive and even bonding experience is to watch porn together, the kind that depicts loving couples having sensual sex that ends with a facial. Watching together can make you feel secure and reassured to be able to view you partner cumming your her face in a positive light. Relax your inhabitions and try to imulate how the porn stars do it (blowjobs, positions, and facials). You'll probabley have him praising you as being even sexier than them!
As for the physical aspect. He'll remind you it's is a fact that many women are totally comfortable with having their guy's cum anywhere on their body, including all over their face. What may seem gross at first, can defiantly turn into not that bad, and then into not bad at all, and totally fine. Basically it's a matter of making an effort.
So the question you'll be faced with is, are you willing to make that effort on you part, for his satisfaction and pleasure. As attending to one another's needs and expectations is inherently a part of successful sexual relationships, he'll expect you to.
The main point he'll try to convey, is one you're surely well aware of: for many men, blowing their load all over a beautiful woman's face is the peak of sexual gratification. Given that, there's really no sense for women to deny them that pleasure. If indeed it's something he can't do without, not being open with each other and avoiding that truth can be damaging. For men who love facials, being denied can understandably be a deal-breaker. After all, what is the point of being in a relationship in which a reasonable sexual desire remains unfulfilled? It's a positive sign If he thoughtfuly and consideratly helps you realize the benefits of investing in an effort to handle his cumshots on your face.
Having you get used to his cum by receiving it first on other parts of your body is defiantly a good technique. Another is to reassure you that after he's finished unloading on your face, he'll be there to help you clean up. Like many women, you're probably concerned about the moments right after getting facialed, how exactly to deal with his cum. Him being there with you and not just dozing away and leaving you to tend to yourself alone can be a key factor in making you feel comfortable to get cum on your face.
H'll also help you understand that while it can be a messy experience (as it should, the whole point is that it gets all over your face, and as much as possible for all he's concerned!) it isn't a very long one, as for most guys even the strongest orgasms tend to last for a matter of less than a minute. You can wipe it right off, with a towel or wipes, until the time comes when you gets used to the sensation of his cum on your face and no longer feel an urgency to immediately wipe it off.
With careful and considerate attention in attending those issues you might have, its entirely possible for you to eventually get used to and become totally comfortable with letting him cum on your face whenever he desires – as indeed many women do. His extreme satisfaction and gratitude should by themselves prove rewarding enough for your efforts.
It's something he sexually can't do without, while you haven't done it and never even imagined you will.
A tricky situation, as you just might be with that wonderful and perfect "right" guy you've always dreamed about, yet it all could be jeapordized.
But if you're in a loving, caring relationship, he won't just give up. He'll want to fullfil his sexual needs with you, not anyone else.
If he loves you and cares for your relationship, fully expect him to try and convince you.
Generally, there could be two issues he'll try to adress: either it's a mental hang-up, as you might view facials in a negative context (degrading), or you have a physical issue of aversion to cum. He knows it's entirely possible for you to overcome both. Communication is the key.
Hear him out when he explains and reassures you that the reason he wants to facial you is not to offend, as that would make no sense, but rather what turns him on is your acceptance. He'll stress the fact that guys love to cum on the face of women they find beautiful, sexy, and attractive, and you can definatly feel flattered when he says that's the reason he wants to cum on your's.
He'll make you see that just as he shows love and appreciation outside the bedroom, he strives to show that during sex. As you are in a relationship, you likely already know his character, and that it's safe to assume he doesn't intend to harm or degrade you.
Another point he'll convey is that nowadays facials are no longer perceived as degrading, but are rather a staple of many women's sexual repertoire, so it's reasonable for him to expect you to incorporate it to yours.
One way to visualizing facials as a positive and even bonding experience is to watch porn together, the kind that depicts loving couples having sensual sex that ends with a facial. Watching together can make you feel secure and reassured to be able to view you partner cumming your her face in a positive light. Relax your inhabitions and try to imulate how the porn stars do it (blowjobs, positions, and facials). You'll probabley have him praising you as being even sexier than them!
As for the physical aspect. He'll remind you it's is a fact that many women are totally comfortable with having their guy's cum anywhere on their body, including all over their face. What may seem gross at first, can defiantly turn into not that bad, and then into not bad at all, and totally fine. Basically it's a matter of making an effort.
So the question you'll be faced with is, are you willing to make that effort on you part, for his satisfaction and pleasure. As attending to one another's needs and expectations is inherently a part of successful sexual relationships, he'll expect you to.
The main point he'll try to convey, is one you're surely well aware of: for many men, blowing their load all over a beautiful woman's face is the peak of sexual gratification. Given that, there's really no sense for women to deny them that pleasure. If indeed it's something he can't do without, not being open with each other and avoiding that truth can be damaging. For men who love facials, being denied can understandably be a deal-breaker. After all, what is the point of being in a relationship in which a reasonable sexual desire remains unfulfilled? It's a positive sign If he thoughtfuly and consideratly helps you realize the benefits of investing in an effort to handle his cumshots on your face.
Having you get used to his cum by receiving it first on other parts of your body is defiantly a good technique. Another is to reassure you that after he's finished unloading on your face, he'll be there to help you clean up. Like many women, you're probably concerned about the moments right after getting facialed, how exactly to deal with his cum. Him being there with you and not just dozing away and leaving you to tend to yourself alone can be a key factor in making you feel comfortable to get cum on your face.
H'll also help you understand that while it can be a messy experience (as it should, the whole point is that it gets all over your face, and as much as possible for all he's concerned!) it isn't a very long one, as for most guys even the strongest orgasms tend to last for a matter of less than a minute. You can wipe it right off, with a towel or wipes, until the time comes when you gets used to the sensation of his cum on your face and no longer feel an urgency to immediately wipe it off.
With careful and considerate attention in attending those issues you might have, its entirely possible for you to eventually get used to and become totally comfortable with letting him cum on your face whenever he desires – as indeed many women do. His extreme satisfaction and gratitude should by themselves prove rewarding enough for your efforts.
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