Rape fantasy

Studies have found **** fantasy is a common sexual fantasy among both men and women. The fantasy may involve the fantasist as either the one being forced into sex or being the perpetrator. A 1974 study by Hariton and Singer found that being "overpowered or forced to surrender" was the second most frequent fantasy in their survey. A 1984 study by Knafo and Jaffe ranked being overpowered as their study's most common fantasy during intercourse. In 1985, Louis H. Janda, an associate professor of psychology at Old Dominion University, said that the sexual fantasy of being ****d is the most common sexual fantasy for women. A 1988 study by Pelletier and Herold found that over half of their female respondents had fantasies of forced sex.

The most frequently cited hypothesis for why women fantasise of being forced and coerced into some sexual activity is that the fantasy avoids societally induced guilt—the woman does not have to admit responsibility for her sexual desires and behaviour. A 1978 study by Moreault and Follingstad was consistent with this hypothesis, and found that women with high levels of sex guilt were more likely to report fantasy themed around being overpowered, dominated, and helpless. In contrast, Pelletier and Herold used a different measure of guilt and found no correlation. Other research suggests that women who report forced sex fantasies have a more positive attitude towards sexuality, contradicting the guilt hypothesis. A 1998 study by Strassberg and Lockerd found that women who fantasised about force were generally less guilty and more erotophilic, and as a result had more frequent and varied fantasies. However, it said that force fantasies are not the most common or the most frequent.

A male sexual fantasy of r****g a woman may bring sexual arousal either from imagining a scene in which first a woman objects but then comes to like and eventually participate in the intercourse, or else one in which the woman does not like it and arousal is associated with the idea of hurting the woman.
发布者 Sara1932
3 年 前
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vaginalisgay
vaginalisgay 1 年 前
Sara1932 : you are a fucking sweetie pie, omg! this is such a pure profile to stumble across while i was...knitting XD 
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77Donkeys 1 年 前
I really think everyone should take a stand and clearly declare that anything that is not a clear 'yes', is a clear 'no'. Besides that everyone has the right to consensual non-consensual play of course. 
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Rohrstockdaddy
Rohrstockdaddy 1 年 前
The simple explanation is that men are perceived as particularly sexually attractive by women when they are tall and muscular and behave in a dominant manner. This, of course, has developmental psychological reasons - such men are more likely to be able to protect and nurture a family. Preference is therefore evolutionarily hard-wired into women's brains, regardless of their cultural conditioning. Therefore, do not listen to what a woman says, but observe what she does.
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bisex_tun
bisex_tun 2 年 前
I believe everyone has demons thoughts, some like it some not, at the end of the day its about how much of these thoughts you kept to yourself, for me knowing that my partner wants it makes me really aroused,consent is a most for me. my mind simply cannot understand how someone can get pleasure knowing that the person they are forcing doesn't want ...    
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 2 年 前
kurac11 : Tack så mycket 😘
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kurac11
kurac11 2 年 前
Härligt att du är kåt då är vi 2 tycker jag är konstant kåt dygnet runt onanerar flera gånger om dagen hade gärna lekt med dina hål väldigt länge ? du ser grymt fin o sexig ut ?
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 2 年 前
kurac11 : Alltid roligt att höra att någon uppskattar något av mina skumma inlägg:). Jag är så kåt nu så orkar inte skriva mer om det inte är vad jag har på mig och korta svar till vad någon man vill göra med mina hål :wink:
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kurac11
kurac11 2 年 前
Hejsan där hoppas allt är bra med dig läste precis ditt inlägg här o måste säga att det var väldigt intressant läsning o givetvis upphetsande med hade faktiskt ingen aning om att det var så vanligt med sådana fantasier självklart har man ju själv fantiserat om det samtidigt som man har onanerat ?
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Nickyhere : It is sweet of you to say something now even if its too late. I think I saw some pics of Tess on your page but cant be sure. Anyway it looks like none of us are accepting friend reqs so I guess I will allow reqs from women and I hope it does not take you too long to answer. It is hard work to sift through reqs and figure out which to accept and not and I also have trouble saying no usually :smile:
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Nickyhere
Nickyhere 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Looks like you missed them. There was a gallery of Tessa yesterday. I deleted it this morning :frowning:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Nickyhere : I understand. Have just quickly scrolled through your profile but I did see some great pics :smile:
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Nickyhere
Nickyhere 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Hi Sara. Hopefully you’ve seen the other pictures further down on my page. All will probably disappear tomorrow. From time to time I do this with women I like or even adore. It’s my way of uploading galleries, now that I can’t do that the proper way any longer. I don’t know if anyone is interested in looking, but I enjoy doing this on my page. I have another set lined up for later this week :wink:
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archie_666
archie_666 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Isn't that what we all want..? That everybody is happy :grinning:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
archie_666 : Everybody happy! :smile:
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archie_666
archie_666 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Well off course you're right. I've got no problem at all with people fantasizing about it. Reading about it makes me think of the real deal and hurting another person makes me sick. And sad. But as you say. Your post was about fantasy and with that I've got no problem. If others fantasize about it that is. :wink:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Nickyhere : You know, maybe it is a little unfair that you use Tessa or other celebs as your avatar because I am like in love with more than a few celebs and even though I dont have any strong feelings about Tessa I did feel just really happy seeing her face which probably means that whatever you write me will light up my day assuming its not negative like "nut case" :smile:. Nothing wrong with you making people happy assuming I am not the only girl her with celeb crushes but maybe those avatars put you in a dominate position over most people you chat with just a thought :smile:. I was just hoping for a sec that you were really Tessa which is so stupid I should spank myself shit! There is an exempel of possible negativity coming from that avatar. Will stop writing now so have a great day and if you need more friends I could send you a req :smile:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Nickyhere : so wonderful to read your positive feedback. I guess I needed that now :smile:
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Nickyhere
Nickyhere 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Thank you Sara! Go for it! :wink:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
archie_666 : Also, Archie whats there to feel sick about really ? My post just states how common fantasies are, does that make you feel sick too ? :smile: If it does thats very interesting and highly troubling. I am guessing you felt sick because the post made you think about the act irl. Could probably discuss consent for a day and I think even I have better things to do :smile: 
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
archie_666 : One thing has nothing to do with the other but when everyone is in on it acting like some are not then of course thats just sex or SM. Personally I think that unless the female is the antagoniser there is always a possibility that it is without consent. Men usually dont require much talking into but women do usually and talking someone into something is not exactly getting consent. So to all men, Never make the first move and wait until the girl feels like it :smile:. Joking :smile:. Just maybe try to let your girlfriend be after she has said no twice even though telling her something exciting and describing in detail what you want to do to her could make her want it more than you because of course you are still talking her into it. Maybe some girls might disagree strongly with this text but its just my personal opinion like I mentioned and if you just think about it I think a lot of girls would feel ok with my main point :smile:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Gulsgraver : Most people have fantasies, some are ruff and others dont. I do have another idea for why so many women do have these fantasies that is not in my text. We are always acting submissive with men we are dating and during blanksex we have no control at all really so seems pretty reasonable that most women would get excited. I must add that someone fantasising about this does not have to mean that she really wants it to happen. Another way of putting it is that men like when we obey them and do as we are told and a lot of women enjoy being controlled. Some overgeneralising but so take this mess with a grain of salt please :smile: 
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Nickyhere : Awesome profile girlfriend ! I feel I must really get to work on mine now. Thank you so much for sharing your fantasy or dream :smile:. I have myself many nights dreamt something similar happening in my bed :smile:
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Gulsgraver
Gulsgraver 3 年 前
What's your opinion?
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archie_666
archie_666 3 年 前
Just to read about it makes me sick. I’m a lover, not a fighter so consent is important for me. Role playing? Sure but is it truly r**e then? 
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Nickyhere
Nickyhere 3 年 前
I have dreamt of being r*d in the toilets of a seedy lesbian bar. The door to the cubicle is open.
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Hercsolo
Hercsolo 3 年 前
Sara1932 : Jaså. Hehe får lita på det då :smile:
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
Hercsolo : Har tyvärr inte gjort undersökningen själv men från personlig erfarenhet och andra tjejer jag har pratat med om det så verkar det stämma ganska bra :smile:
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Hercsolo
Hercsolo 3 年 前
Jaså? Stämmer verkligen detta?
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Sara1932
Sara1932 出版商 3 年 前
I hear you and points for saying it :smile:
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want2-havefun 3 年 前
Sara1932 : I know if guys you actually fantasise about it too
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