Willpower over Lust

This past weekend I was with an old lady friend (Danielle) who I haven't seen in years who found me on FB & chatted about a week then finally met up with her. As we partied at her house,we talked,smoked,hot railing,& drinking having a good time we got on the subject of sex,so hearing some back n forth stories of our past experiences in sex I couldn't take my eyes off of her low buttoned flannel shirt which she looked good in. I noticed that her tit's were slightly ohh showing. This got my blood & cock going & soon was poking in my pants as I was imagining myself going to her ripping her top off & sucking on her juicy soft melon's & rubbing my hands n fingers on her pussy & making her moan with pleasure. I had to snap out of it and pay attention to her story in case she asked me a question on anything & was for the most part till I asked how she'd like to be or do during sex. And I couldn't stop thinking of taking her to the back bedroom and having my way with her as she told me she likes to be submissive & a man taking control of her & seducing her as he pleases. Having sex with her back in the day, I was a rascal juvenile,green,horny & quick about it at her Apt. I was thinking if only she knew the mature sexual experienced guy I'd become & show her. But mature as I was I kept it respectful & think with my head on my shoulders,not between my thighs. Thinking I would do anything for her at that time ANYTHING!! I knew I was High as a kite but I'm also my best when I'm High also & wanted to prove it. Cordial male that I'd become, I overcame my urges & calmed down. I'm glad I did too, I had a really good time even if no sex was involved, I didn't regret a thing. And as for my willpower.. I guess I provided it to myself that I'm a mature respectful person & lead by example,not my cock. Maybe some day we will but for now, I'm enjoying her company, voice,& beauty as a strong, independent, well established woman. It's good to hear & see that she has made it through life's rollercoaster punches & glad she made contact with me.