A Blowjob From a Guy?
I've become quite friendly with another married CD here on this site. He's a 40-something fat guy who like panties like me but his wife fully indulges his fantasies and they incorporate panty and lingerie play into their sex nearly all of the time. Like me, my friend wears panties full time and only owns "guy underwear" for situations where he doesn't want to have to explain his choice in undergarments to judgmental fellow straight men who would automatically just assume that he's either gay or bisexual. Additionally, we have discussed trading some old lingerie back and forth as his wife wears my size and his wife wears my wife's old size. My wife has lost about 70 lbs in the past two years in preparation for a hopeful pregnancy and following an illness this year that was serious. In fact, we had sex for the first time in almost 3 months today. We typically have sex 2-3 times per week minimum when my wife isn't ill. It looks like we're back on track to return to our old schedule. So, I have a full bag of lingerie (some of which still has tags) that I'm going to box-up and ship to him and in return he's going to send me a box of his wife's unworn "extra" lingerie that she doesn't use. His wife is actually a bit larger than me, so I'm hopeful that most of the lingerie will fit.
My friend has no shame in sending pictures of himself and his wife having sex with each other (they don't share publicly though they do contribute to the site - just not with their own pictures). We don't do pictures or videos at all and my wife will not participate in anything that is recorded. In fact, when we first got engaged my wife caught me setting up my old cell phone to record us and nearly beat the crap out of me. It actually led to the first fight that we ever had as she wouldn't accept my apology. She finally did and we moved on, but that's why the only picture of my wife on my entire Xhamster profile is my main photo. My wife is wearing panties, but she's fully clothed.
Lately my friend on here of about a year has been pushing for us all to meet as his wife is much like mine and he and his wife live within an hour drive of our house. When I balked at the meet-up with the wives, he suggested that we meet up and hang out. Then, he suggested something that I wasn't ready for. I bonded with this friend because we (were) both straight crossdressers who are big guys who have big wives and who like big women. I agreed to meet up with my new friend and last week we grabbed a beer when I was in his general area. He's a nice guy. I won't say his name because it's unique and it's in his profile name. Also, he only has a handful of things shared publicly. When we met up we both discussed what panties we were wearing at the time and we did a trial exchange of garments in the parking lot. I gained 10 pairs of new sexy panties that don't fit his wife correctly because they are too small for her but just right for me (I'm a size 11-12 who occasionally buys size 13 panties depending on the cut). She's a solid size 12-13 who buys size 14 panties for when she occasionally increases in size (her weight fluctuates a lot). A few pairs of the panties were just random Just My Size but most were from Lane Bryant and Torrid. I gave my friend a bag full of similar items as well as a couple of lingerie ensembles that are now way too big for my wife to wear. He got the better end of the deal, but it was better than getting nothing since these items were just slated to be given away to Goodwill or the Salvation Army.
After a few days had passed, my friend wrote me to thank me for the great selection of panties. It's also important to mention that he got a few used pairs as used doesn't bother him (I don't want anyone's used undergarments - male or female because I find it gross. After thanking me we wrote back and forth for a couple of days and then my friend dropped a bombshell on me that I wasn't expecting. First, my friend asked if I wanted to get dressed up with him and jerk off together. I declined. Then, when I balked at the "less demanding" request, he upped the ante and asked me if I would be his first male blowjob with a caveat that I did not have to reciprocate. He just wanted to have his first cock be from someone that he knows and that he knows is clean. Now, here is where it gets even weirder for me. I told my wife about our interactions and she knew we got together for beers (she has no idea about the lingerie swap). But, I told her about the shared interest in crossdressing and then I told her about the two different solicitations for sexual contact. My wife laughed at first and then she dropped her bombshell on me. She said, "You should do it and let me watch." My mouth hit the floor. My wife then explained to me that she was in a relationship with a bisexual girl and guy at the same time and that she was very much into watching her bi male friend suck off his friend. She said that there was the "this is wrong" aspect that turned her on. She then also told me that I'm the second crossdresser that she's been with in her life, but that I'm the first 100% straight one.
My wife has encouraged me to consider accepting this blowjob in order to expand my sexual horizons and because she said that it would make me actually feel more secure in my sexuality. I am interested in seeing if a blowjob from a man is as good or better than my very, very skilled wife. But, even if you accept a blowjob and don't reciprocate it doesn't change that it was from a guy.
I'm looking for responses from other straight CD's or straight men. Would you accept this to find out if you like it or not or would you just take a hard pass? (Pun intended). I could never reciprocate because if a guy blew his load in my mouth, I'd vomit. Also, I can't see my head buried in a man's crotch. If I didn't have a choice, I guess that I would choose a shaved TS to blow but since I do have a choice, I'm just going to take a hard pass on the whole cock in my mouth thing.
I'm looking for respectful feedback from non-gay, non-bisexual men who may either be in this circumstance OR if you've tried it before.
My friend has no shame in sending pictures of himself and his wife having sex with each other (they don't share publicly though they do contribute to the site - just not with their own pictures). We don't do pictures or videos at all and my wife will not participate in anything that is recorded. In fact, when we first got engaged my wife caught me setting up my old cell phone to record us and nearly beat the crap out of me. It actually led to the first fight that we ever had as she wouldn't accept my apology. She finally did and we moved on, but that's why the only picture of my wife on my entire Xhamster profile is my main photo. My wife is wearing panties, but she's fully clothed.
Lately my friend on here of about a year has been pushing for us all to meet as his wife is much like mine and he and his wife live within an hour drive of our house. When I balked at the meet-up with the wives, he suggested that we meet up and hang out. Then, he suggested something that I wasn't ready for. I bonded with this friend because we (were) both straight crossdressers who are big guys who have big wives and who like big women. I agreed to meet up with my new friend and last week we grabbed a beer when I was in his general area. He's a nice guy. I won't say his name because it's unique and it's in his profile name. Also, he only has a handful of things shared publicly. When we met up we both discussed what panties we were wearing at the time and we did a trial exchange of garments in the parking lot. I gained 10 pairs of new sexy panties that don't fit his wife correctly because they are too small for her but just right for me (I'm a size 11-12 who occasionally buys size 13 panties depending on the cut). She's a solid size 12-13 who buys size 14 panties for when she occasionally increases in size (her weight fluctuates a lot). A few pairs of the panties were just random Just My Size but most were from Lane Bryant and Torrid. I gave my friend a bag full of similar items as well as a couple of lingerie ensembles that are now way too big for my wife to wear. He got the better end of the deal, but it was better than getting nothing since these items were just slated to be given away to Goodwill or the Salvation Army.
After a few days had passed, my friend wrote me to thank me for the great selection of panties. It's also important to mention that he got a few used pairs as used doesn't bother him (I don't want anyone's used undergarments - male or female because I find it gross. After thanking me we wrote back and forth for a couple of days and then my friend dropped a bombshell on me that I wasn't expecting. First, my friend asked if I wanted to get dressed up with him and jerk off together. I declined. Then, when I balked at the "less demanding" request, he upped the ante and asked me if I would be his first male blowjob with a caveat that I did not have to reciprocate. He just wanted to have his first cock be from someone that he knows and that he knows is clean. Now, here is where it gets even weirder for me. I told my wife about our interactions and she knew we got together for beers (she has no idea about the lingerie swap). But, I told her about the shared interest in crossdressing and then I told her about the two different solicitations for sexual contact. My wife laughed at first and then she dropped her bombshell on me. She said, "You should do it and let me watch." My mouth hit the floor. My wife then explained to me that she was in a relationship with a bisexual girl and guy at the same time and that she was very much into watching her bi male friend suck off his friend. She said that there was the "this is wrong" aspect that turned her on. She then also told me that I'm the second crossdresser that she's been with in her life, but that I'm the first 100% straight one.
My wife has encouraged me to consider accepting this blowjob in order to expand my sexual horizons and because she said that it would make me actually feel more secure in my sexuality. I am interested in seeing if a blowjob from a man is as good or better than my very, very skilled wife. But, even if you accept a blowjob and don't reciprocate it doesn't change that it was from a guy.
I'm looking for responses from other straight CD's or straight men. Would you accept this to find out if you like it or not or would you just take a hard pass? (Pun intended). I could never reciprocate because if a guy blew his load in my mouth, I'd vomit. Also, I can't see my head buried in a man's crotch. If I didn't have a choice, I guess that I would choose a shaved TS to blow but since I do have a choice, I'm just going to take a hard pass on the whole cock in my mouth thing.
I'm looking for respectful feedback from non-gay, non-bisexual men who may either be in this circumstance OR if you've tried it before.
5 年 前
I have been with the same lady since 1977 and if her and I were in an accepting role-play sex place in our relationship, going "bi-for-a-day" would be the next step. Think of it as performance art or exploring what the ladies already know about. I had thought about this just last week when I too met my first xham friend in person - what would two normal guys {strangers really} do on a Friday afternoon to not scare my wife when we picked her up after work? We were just having dinner and conversation and was enough to put suggestive thoughts in our new friends head about my sweet wife to making her his newest fantasy world.