Questions for the husband
Because my wife and I are so busy in our daily lives, it's difficult for us to sometimes answer all the great, interesting questions we receive in messages. So here are a few questions which have been asked of me, the husband, here on XH.
Questions
Q: How long have you been sharing your wife with other men?
A: Over three years.
Q: Do you ever get jealous when a man fucks your wife?
A: No, not at all. I see my wife as an object, sexually. So I don't have that traditional jealousy. When we first began, a young college student fucked my wife in front of me. And man, he fucked her really hard like she likes. I remember feeling a little jealousy as I watched her having orgasms with him, thinking "How am I going to top that?". lol. But what I've learned is, some guys are going to fuck her better than I do, just like some guys might be better at some other things that I do. But that doesn't mean that I don't want my wife to have good experiences when men fuck her. I want her to have a good time. So now I don't feel jealousy at all.
Q: Have you ever done wife sharing with other couples?
A: No, we haven't shared with couples.
Q: Does your wife like/do anal?
A: She has done anal, but not with any of the men who've fucked her since we've been together. She would let a guy have her ass if he wanted it. I haven't asked her, but I know her well enough to know that she would do it. She's very giving and accomodating to men in bed. She's a pleaser.
Q: Does your wife sell her panties?
A: She hasn't sold her panties. But if you are interested, send us a message. She thinks the idea of it is sexy.
Q: Does she love to be spanked?
A: I don't know if she "loves it", but in general, she likes the dynamic of being spanked, choked and slapped by me. She likes to be roughed up sexually, including being hard fucked. Other men haven't spanked her or beaten her or anything like that. Those things require a lot of trust and trust takes time. So, with me, yes. With others, so far, no.
Q: Does your wife only fuck black men? Does she prefer black men?
A: My wife does not exclusively fuck black men. She will fuck any man regardless of race (with my approval of course). I haven't asked her lately if she "prefers" black men. I think her answer would be, no, but I'm not completely sure. I think that she certainly likes how black men fuck her. They have been aggressive and somewhat dominant with her, which she likes. And she likes the color contrast of their skin against her when they are inside of her. But she is not exclusive to fucking black men. She enjoys sex with any man of any race.
Q: Does your wife video chat?
A: Nope. Don't bother to ask. lol. We simply don't have time to get on video chat with people we have yet to meet.
Q: What's the most men your wife has fucked in a day?
A: Three, or four, I think. I don't remember exactly. At different times.
Q: Has your wife ever been gang banged?
A: No, but she wants to experience it. I want her to experience it as well as I think she is built for gang bangs, mentally and physically.
Q: I live (somewhere far away from you) and I was wondering if you would be interested in meeting up?
A: If you live more than an hour or two away, our experience is that there is nearly a zero percent chance that a meetup will happen. People who are local find excuses to flake. People far away have much more reason to flake. So we just don't put much effort into distant meetups. However, if we vacation near people who are far away, we are up for meeting them.
Q: Who am I chatting with, the Mr. or the Mrs.?
A: Both my wife and I frequent our XH site and we both respond to messages and make comments. Usually you can tell which of us is which because we try to make it known each time we leave comments or reply to messages.
Q: Do you guys sell videos of your wife?
A: No, we haven't done that. Maybe in the future. If you have a special request, message us.
Q: Are you always present when your wife fucks another guy?
A: Usually I am, but not always. When I'm present, it's typically for my wife's safety (if it's someone new) and comfort. She tells me she prefers that I be there. She has fucked a few men without me present.
Q: Do you eat your wife's pussy after a guy cums in her?
A: No. I do like to eat her pussy, but I'm not into tasting another guy's cum. I do fuck her after another guy cums in her pussy.
Q: I am married and want my wife to explore this lifestyle with me. Do you have any advice.
A: Realize that not every woman wants this fantasy. Our society has spent decades telling women that being sexually open and free is bad. It's a stigma. So understand that most women, though they may be intrigued by it, will not want to do it by default. My advice is to simply discuss the lifestyle with your partner. If she watches porn with you, choose some porn which shows a guy fucking another man's wife. Afterward, tell her that you think that the married woman was sexy for being so open and free, and tell her why you feel that way. If she shows any interest, build on it with more communication and see where it goes. Good luck!
Q: What's the biggest cock your wife has taken?
A: I have no idea. Probably about 10 inches long maybe? She has never measured any of the men who have fucked her. The guy with the biggest cock was a college student she met a couple of years ago. He stretched her and made her incredibly sore. It was a challenge for her, but she liked it. There's a photo of him in our gallery fucking her from behind.
Q: How big is your cock?
A: Between 6-7 inches long. You can see it in our video which has the word "husband" in it.
Q: Do you worry that your wife will not enjoy sex with you after men with such large cocks fuck her?
A: Early on, I did worry. But I soon realized I don't really care if she enjoys sex more with other men than with me. I mean, of course a man with a fat, long cock is going to stimulate her more when he fucks her. Think about the surface area of a 9 inch, fat cock going into her pussy, compared to my average sized cock. He's simply going to stimulate more nerve endings inside of her. Plus, it's "taboo" and sexy for my wife to be fucking another guy with her husband's permission. So it's fine with me if she enjoys a guy's cock more than mine. At the end of the day, I get the same pussy that she gives to these other men. And I fuck her pussy far more often than anyone else. So, I don't worry.
Q: How many men has your wife fucked?
A: I don't think she knows exactly, but she estimates about 40 men. She has fucked 10 men since she and I have been married. Most of the other men were when she was in college.
Q: Did you take some videos down? I don't see them.
A: I occasionally remove some older videos and put others up as we make new ones.
Q: When your wife sucks cock, does she swallow cum?
A: Yes, she swallows. It's natural for her to swallow a man to completion. I've also expressed my belief to her that a man's cum should always be swallowed when offered. So, yes, she does.
Q: Does your wife have a sister? lol
A: My wife is one-of-a-kind ;)
Q: Does your wife fuck older men, like in their 60s and 70s.
A: She hasn't yet, but she would, yes.
Questions
Q: How long have you been sharing your wife with other men?
A: Over three years.
Q: Do you ever get jealous when a man fucks your wife?
A: No, not at all. I see my wife as an object, sexually. So I don't have that traditional jealousy. When we first began, a young college student fucked my wife in front of me. And man, he fucked her really hard like she likes. I remember feeling a little jealousy as I watched her having orgasms with him, thinking "How am I going to top that?". lol. But what I've learned is, some guys are going to fuck her better than I do, just like some guys might be better at some other things that I do. But that doesn't mean that I don't want my wife to have good experiences when men fuck her. I want her to have a good time. So now I don't feel jealousy at all.
Q: Have you ever done wife sharing with other couples?
A: No, we haven't shared with couples.
Q: Does your wife like/do anal?
A: She has done anal, but not with any of the men who've fucked her since we've been together. She would let a guy have her ass if he wanted it. I haven't asked her, but I know her well enough to know that she would do it. She's very giving and accomodating to men in bed. She's a pleaser.
Q: Does your wife sell her panties?
A: She hasn't sold her panties. But if you are interested, send us a message. She thinks the idea of it is sexy.
Q: Does she love to be spanked?
A: I don't know if she "loves it", but in general, she likes the dynamic of being spanked, choked and slapped by me. She likes to be roughed up sexually, including being hard fucked. Other men haven't spanked her or beaten her or anything like that. Those things require a lot of trust and trust takes time. So, with me, yes. With others, so far, no.
Q: Does your wife only fuck black men? Does she prefer black men?
A: My wife does not exclusively fuck black men. She will fuck any man regardless of race (with my approval of course). I haven't asked her lately if she "prefers" black men. I think her answer would be, no, but I'm not completely sure. I think that she certainly likes how black men fuck her. They have been aggressive and somewhat dominant with her, which she likes. And she likes the color contrast of their skin against her when they are inside of her. But she is not exclusive to fucking black men. She enjoys sex with any man of any race.
Q: Does your wife video chat?
A: Nope. Don't bother to ask. lol. We simply don't have time to get on video chat with people we have yet to meet.
Q: What's the most men your wife has fucked in a day?
A: Three, or four, I think. I don't remember exactly. At different times.
Q: Has your wife ever been gang banged?
A: No, but she wants to experience it. I want her to experience it as well as I think she is built for gang bangs, mentally and physically.
Q: I live (somewhere far away from you) and I was wondering if you would be interested in meeting up?
A: If you live more than an hour or two away, our experience is that there is nearly a zero percent chance that a meetup will happen. People who are local find excuses to flake. People far away have much more reason to flake. So we just don't put much effort into distant meetups. However, if we vacation near people who are far away, we are up for meeting them.
Q: Who am I chatting with, the Mr. or the Mrs.?
A: Both my wife and I frequent our XH site and we both respond to messages and make comments. Usually you can tell which of us is which because we try to make it known each time we leave comments or reply to messages.
Q: Do you guys sell videos of your wife?
A: No, we haven't done that. Maybe in the future. If you have a special request, message us.
Q: Are you always present when your wife fucks another guy?
A: Usually I am, but not always. When I'm present, it's typically for my wife's safety (if it's someone new) and comfort. She tells me she prefers that I be there. She has fucked a few men without me present.
Q: Do you eat your wife's pussy after a guy cums in her?
A: No. I do like to eat her pussy, but I'm not into tasting another guy's cum. I do fuck her after another guy cums in her pussy.
Q: I am married and want my wife to explore this lifestyle with me. Do you have any advice.
A: Realize that not every woman wants this fantasy. Our society has spent decades telling women that being sexually open and free is bad. It's a stigma. So understand that most women, though they may be intrigued by it, will not want to do it by default. My advice is to simply discuss the lifestyle with your partner. If she watches porn with you, choose some porn which shows a guy fucking another man's wife. Afterward, tell her that you think that the married woman was sexy for being so open and free, and tell her why you feel that way. If she shows any interest, build on it with more communication and see where it goes. Good luck!
Q: What's the biggest cock your wife has taken?
A: I have no idea. Probably about 10 inches long maybe? She has never measured any of the men who have fucked her. The guy with the biggest cock was a college student she met a couple of years ago. He stretched her and made her incredibly sore. It was a challenge for her, but she liked it. There's a photo of him in our gallery fucking her from behind.
Q: How big is your cock?
A: Between 6-7 inches long. You can see it in our video which has the word "husband" in it.
Q: Do you worry that your wife will not enjoy sex with you after men with such large cocks fuck her?
A: Early on, I did worry. But I soon realized I don't really care if she enjoys sex more with other men than with me. I mean, of course a man with a fat, long cock is going to stimulate her more when he fucks her. Think about the surface area of a 9 inch, fat cock going into her pussy, compared to my average sized cock. He's simply going to stimulate more nerve endings inside of her. Plus, it's "taboo" and sexy for my wife to be fucking another guy with her husband's permission. So it's fine with me if she enjoys a guy's cock more than mine. At the end of the day, I get the same pussy that she gives to these other men. And I fuck her pussy far more often than anyone else. So, I don't worry.
Q: How many men has your wife fucked?
A: I don't think she knows exactly, but she estimates about 40 men. She has fucked 10 men since she and I have been married. Most of the other men were when she was in college.
Q: Did you take some videos down? I don't see them.
A: I occasionally remove some older videos and put others up as we make new ones.
Q: When your wife sucks cock, does she swallow cum?
A: Yes, she swallows. It's natural for her to swallow a man to completion. I've also expressed my belief to her that a man's cum should always be swallowed when offered. So, yes, she does.
Q: Does your wife have a sister? lol
A: My wife is one-of-a-kind ;)
Q: Does your wife fuck older men, like in their 60s and 70s.
A: She hasn't yet, but she would, yes.
4 年 前
. I think that women should do whatever makes the man in her life feel special. If a man feels more loved being cooked for than having his wife gang banged, she should do it 
